Video of Livvy/Haley for Bob and Sharon Cole

Austin Cross Country

Austin ran cross country this year to get into shape for basketball. We found out that he is a runner! He loved it. He was the only freshman to run on the varsity team. His team missed going to state last weekend at districts by only 2 points! Next year we plan on being there! At districts he came in 3rd on his team, beating out 3 upperclassmen. WAY TO GO AUSTIN!!

Letter from Principal

I just wanted to thank all of you for all you have done for our family. I don't know how we could keep going without all the family and friends that we have and for the support you give us. The cards, emails and phone calls mean so much to us. I can't even begin to express how much. I also want to thank you for making it possible for us to give back to the school district. The things we have been able to do mean so much to us to keep Weston's memory alive. I had no idea how much it meant to others until I read a letter from the principal. Thank you for helping us to make an impact on others and help them also deal with losing a friend.

Here is copy of the letter the principal sent to community businesses and individuals:

9/15/2008
Please give me the chance to introduce myself, and to explain the purpose for my request. I am Trish Munsterman and I am the principal at Lakeland Elementary. The reason for my letter today is complicated and sad.

Next month, October, marks the one year anniversary of the death of one of our students. Last year in October, Weston Wilkins, a six-year old in first grade, was the victim of a hay riding accident. I cannot even begin to tell you how much the news of his death tore up our school. At the time, we still had three of his brothers as members of our school family. And this is how we feel about ourselves—as a family. The Wilkins’ family is a beloved part of our community and we were all deeply saddened by his death.

What is remarkable about this whole situation is rather hard to explain. Instead of what we could do for the family—it became what the family of Weston could do for the school district to comfort us. Their concern was for Weston’s friends and classmates and how to get them to understand: why? As the donations to the family came in, the family thought of ways to give back to the school district where Weston and all their boys attended instead of ways to use the money to help their family. They have started annual Spelling Bee prize money for 1st, 2nd, and 3rd place for grades first through sixth grade for the duration of their children’s educational experience at Lakeland Elementary.

You can’t begin to believe the kids’ reaction to receiving this money last year. The family purchased over one hundred books for the elementary library in Weston’s memory on his favorite subjects because he was an avid reader. These are some of the favorite books at our Elementary. Weston’s extended family had written a book based on Weston’s young, full life, and at the end of the year, the family brought a book for every child in his class and had a class celebration while reading this. This is now one of the favorite books at these children’s homes and in some cases the only one.

What is it I would like to do? I would like to give something back to the family who has given so much to us. I would like to do something to honor the life of Weston Wilkins. I would like to give something to his classmates who still miss and think of Weston often and probably will for a long, long time. I hope to put a memorial for Weston on our Elementary playground and invite the family out to dedicate the area in memory of Weston with his classmates. He loved nature and loved being outside. It would be wonderful to be able to place at least one sturdy tree in his memory with a small memorial stone with Weston’s name and at least one bench so his classmates can share the outdoors with him.

If there is anything that you feel like you could donate to help with our cause, it would be greatly appreciated. Please feel free to contact me at your convenience. My contact information is at the bottom of the page. I would hope to have this project lined out by the first week of October. We just want to do a little something to give back to the family that has given us so much, and to remember our friend that the kids know is till here with them in spirit.

Thank you, Sincerely, Trish Munsterman

Thank you again to all of you. You have definately help ease our burden some at such a devasting time in our lives. Allen and Cindy and Family

Westons Birthday

The school surpised us on Westons birthday with a project they were working on. The principal had sent a letter out to several businesses and she received donations to put a bench, fence, tree and a memorial rock with Westons named engraved on it in a corner of the playground. A local florist brought over a balloon for each 2nd grader and our family to release. They sang Happy Birthday and then told of a memory they had of Weston. It was really sweet.

Alot of other classes and faculty attended the ceremony also. We wanted to remember Weston's birthday but weren't quite sure what to do. This was perfect for our family. We are so thankful to be part of such a caring community!

Labor Day Weekend

We went to Dennis and Marcie Stocks for Labor Day. Robin and Grant went also. We had a barbeque, volleyball and 4wheelin! It was fun. Gavin LOVED the little ATV. He was so fun to watch.....No Fear! The faster the better!

Colton

Rebecca, Gavin and Colton

Guess what he wants for Christmas!

MaKenna McCain

I was going through Caidens pictures on his camera and found this video. It made me laugh :) It is MaKenna dancing with a John McCain mask on.

Email from Lakeland Prinicpal 08/28/2008

I received this email from the Elementary principal. I was glad she shared it with us. Garrett was Westons best friend.

"....I noticed it when I was in Miss Cook's classroom today and had to take a picture of it for you.
After I asked her about it later, she said that the boys had done that the very first day that she put the red and blue magnets on the desk.
And Weston's name was the first that they spelled out. I thought you'd like to know that he's still a part of their class! Trish"

Good Ol' Basketball Game 8/9/2008

They had a great game until it started pouring rain. They played in it for a while until they were sliding everywhere.


Irinia and Bradley. Irinia gave Bradley a good challenge.

Slip N Slide

Bradley made a HUGHE Slip N Slide. The kids had alot of fun on it.....So did Bradley :)

M'Kay


Austin


Watch out MaKenna!! Here comes Bradley!



TADA! Here is Gavin


Annie

Even Irinia gave it a try!

Gavin and Lacey

St. Louis Zoo

After the wedding Brent and Linell and us took some of the kids to the St. Louis Zoo. It is probably one of my favorite zoos. We had a great time.

The kids found the waterfall at the zoo and Gavin decided it was hot and he was going in!

Then Britton decided to join him.

Before we knew it they were all in it!!

Then Linell and I decided to join them....It felt soooo good!

Then they attacked Allen and tried to get him wet also :)

Turtle Park

After Rachelle's wedding Brent and Linell came with us to Turtle Park. This is the first time we have been back since Weston died. So it was kindof bittersweet for us. He loved coming to this park. A few months before he died we were in St. Louis and he was soooo adamant about going to turtle park. At the time Allen and I thought it was kind of funny because he wanted to go so bad. He never really begged us for things like he did that day to go to the park. Turtle park is just a little park off the side of the highway in St. Louis. A lady made the park for her grandchildren and other kids to play at. Each turtle is a named for one of her children or grandchildren. My kids have always enjoyed climbing on the turtles and running around. There is also a huge cement snake coiled around some eggs.